Express yourself, win a laptop... and a chance to be published!
TeenBuilding USA is giving high-school students in the Campbell, Kapolei, and Leeward Districts an opportunity to express themselves and share their specific thoughts, fears, hopes and personal experiences through an Essay & Short Story Creative Writing Contest.
Just tell us how you were personally affected this year.
The Contest prizes include:
1st Place – Essay:
1st Place – Short Story:
Top 20 essays and short stories:
TeenBuilding USA will accept up to 100 entries, and is partnering with a publisher and printer to facilitate a published compilation of the top 20 entries into a book titled “West Oahu Teen Time Capsule 2020,” which will be available for sale on Amazon and other major book distributors.
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In this post from a 'Teen Talk' column (articles written by teens to help parents understand what's really happening in their world), a teenager shares what she learned from a personal experience with bullying in high school and how parents can support teens through their own situations. Important topics include:
BOTTOM LINE: “There is definitely a need for you, to have a conversation with your teenager about bullying.”
Check out this important article HERE
This video of Apollos Hester when he was younger is definitely in the interview “Hall of Fame!”
We often ask the teenagers in our seminars, "What is the difference between knowledge and wisdom?"
With the young man in this video representing our nation's future, we have the answer; we have the technology!
In his words, we have the answer!
This video, though somewhat dated, reflects what CAN happen, with coaching, guidance, and motivation.
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When Tom Lindsey’s foster son’s e-cigarette cartridge accidentally fell to the floor, they both dove for it. Lindsey got to it first, but that didn’t end the scuffle.
“He bites my hand just like Gollum,” Lindsey recalled.
That’s when it became clear to the retired Kauai corrections officer and long-time foster parent that e-cigarettes weren’t just a fad. Lindsey is so concerned about vaping’s ability to quickly hook Hawaii’s youth that he recently traveled to Oahu to attend a state summit on tobacco use prevention.
“I’m a dad — I’m supposed to be a gatekeeper at the house,” he said. “He knows it’s dangerous. I can’t keep him in a bubble.”
Since their entrée into the market about 10 years ago, vaping devices have exploded in popularity among Hawaii youth, particularly on the neighbor islands. Read the rest of the article HERE
Do you remember when you were a teenager?
Was it ten years ago? Twenty? Thirty?
Whatever the case may be, times have certainly changed.
Oh sure… there are some things that will never change. For example, there is the attention we pay to teenage pregnancies, teen drug and alcohol abuse, teens’ emotional maturity, the financial inequalities among classmates’ families, and then the ever-present and growing issues centered on ethnic (and other) identity pressures.
And then there are the “new” issues, many of which are facilitated by technology.
Pornography, cyberbullying, and (yes) immediate access to a potentially bottomless pit of information are the “new” issues facing today’s teens.
Today’s TeenBuilding post is not about the “new” challenges today’s teens face.
On the contrary, today’s post focuses on the one thing most teens have always had: parents or guardians.
By definition, a parent is (1) one that begets or brings forth offspring; and (2) the material or source from which something is derived.
Similarly, my smart friend, Google, says a guardian is “a person who looks after and is legally responsible for someone who is unable to manage their own affairs, especially an incompetent or disabled person or a child...”
So, it would seem that a parent is expected to be a guardian, but a guardian is not necessarily a parent.
Unlike the teenagers of yesteryear, today’s teenagers are far more likely to be more knowledgeable than their parents when it comes to a broader understanding of the “real” world. Google, Yahoo, YouTube, and the internet, in general, have ushered in an era where access to information can be equally awesome, scary, uplifting, revolting, and life-changing… all at the same time.
But let’s not confuse knowledge and information with wisdom.
In our FREE seminars with today’s teens, TeenBuilding USA draws a stark contrast between knowledge and wisdom.
Essentially, you can be the “smartest person in the world.” But if you don’t use your knowledge, you are fundamentally on the same level as a person who lacks understanding.
THIS, my friends, is the message we must work tirelessly to get across to our teenagers.
Wisdom is applied knowledge.
Without knowledge, there can be no wisdom.
Indeed, knowledge is heaped upon us from many different avenues.
We gain knowledge from books, conversations, courses, experiences, and from simply enjoying the input gleaned from our six senses.
Because of the tremendous changes teenagers face in what will ultimately prove to be the most critical stages of their lives, they often don’t fully understand the context of what they see, how they feel, or where their adolescent decisions can lead to life-changing actions.
Whose job is it to provide context of what they see, how they feel, or where things can potentially go wrong based on their teenage behavior.
Answer: YOU… the parent or guardian.
But not every parent or guardian is comfortable with having those super-important conversations. As a father of daughters, I often leave certain topics of conversations to my wife. All dads might not have the same opportunity. Likewise, many parents are often unsure of the “right” time to discuss drugs, sex, peer-pressure and other intense teen-related topics. Interestingly enough, these are adult-oriented topics… which is precisely why parents and guardians absolutely NEED to have these types of discussions with their teenager, regardless of the level of discomfort.
If, like many parents, you would like assistance in facilitating a contextual discussion with your teenager, consider bookmarking this blog for guidance on how to discuss delicate-but-necessary topics with your teenager(s). This is the first blog post in what will be a continuing community forum on what WE can do to help our teenagers achieve success in a world where they are growing up faster than ever.
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John H. Clark III is an optimistic realist.